Parenting is the thing, which you cannot define in exact words. It is a feeling to teach and make your child to teach, how to be a successful and better person in the life. There is not any particular definition for parenting. This is the process, which can be different for everyone. This is the same way with different roots to every parent. The same thing to be done in every family during parenting, but the method is always different for everyone at every time because every child is different and every parent is different. Parenting is a big responsibility. There is not only the requirement of physical care. Parenting includes the teaching of good morals and healthy habits too.
Better parenting -What it is all about?
All children are different from each other. Try never to compare abilities of your child with others, as this thing will might create a sense of revolt in them. They even can’t be similar to their siblings. So, how come the parenting can be similar for every child. The better parenting is based on understanding. How properly you understand your child.
If you force your child to do anything to do without making him understand the need of that particular activity, you can’t make that activity as a habit of your child. So, the most important thing is make them realize the importance of that activity. Then, you will never have to force them to do anything.
Don’t take child as a responsibility, take it as a privilege
If you do any work with the thought of responsibility or burden, you can never give your 100 % to it. Children are the privilege to us. We learn so much from, we get so much from them. They are like a boon in our life.
Your kid will take time to learn things
Your children are growing, but they cannot learn everything in one night. So, please don’t be always in a rush to teach them everything in one night. Every child has learning capacity differs from others so let them take time to be and habitual of your expected habits and deeds.
Don’t be like a teacher, be like a supporter to them
Don’t behave with them like they are not living in the house, but a learning house. If they are friendly with you they will be able to share with you everything and this is the base of a better parenting. When you know your child properly, only then you can decide what is right for your child and what are the things, which should be avoided by you for them?
As a parent try to be a learner
There is no age for learning stuff in your life. If you are finding that you are wrong in your approach to deal with your life then there is no harm in improving yourself. Various learned person and renowned researched have considered parenting is a constant learning process. You are always a learner in this process. At every step, at every time you will learn many things. Believe me, this is an amazing and unforgettable experience. You are like a friend for them but don’t cross the line of respect. They should treat you as their very close friend, but they should always give you respect as your parents. This is a very important lesson for them. Learn good things from other parents, but don’t follow blindly to anyone. Always manage family time from your busy schedule. This is not important how many years you are spending, but how much quality time you are giving to your kids.
Hannah Taylor is a freelance writer and a student, she takes great interest writing contents about Entertainment such as music, celebrities, movies and TV series. Her last blog was about the mother of two celebrity teenagers Sheryl Pouls.